Training Her Husband: Femdom Rules

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There’s a certain liberty that comes with completely giving up control like that. The sub doesn’t have to think about anything other than following instructions. They don’t have to worry about how good the sex is for their partner; they just have to do as they’re told. As such, they can fully let go of any anxiety or worry and lose themselves in the moment. The Thrill of Fear, Degradation, and Pain

If your sub is your long-term partner, learning how to be a Dom outside of the bedroom is especially important as it’ll help you to maintain that power dynamic over time and keep her interested. either you didn’t read his article carefully and just skimmed it, which resulted in you completely missing a lot of the info that you claimed he “didn’t write” or should have wrote a certain way (even though he DID include the info you claimed he didn’t and DID write the points a certain way, which again you claimed he didn’t, and everyone else except you can clearly see that you’re mistaken on). But the proof is literally right there in the article, which you WOULD have seen IF you had actually read it, and that’s why everyone else here can only come to the logical conclusion that you didn’t read it. Because nowhere in your initial comment did you make any point that was counter to his article, because those points you claimed he didn’t make were ALREADY right there in his article. So you were basically arguing the same point he had originally made, which was totally redundant but ok. The various levels will also open up your chance for other parts of training. Such has having your mate clean your pussy after peeing will ultimately open them up to water sports. You won't need to fully experiment with full out water sports but should at least push some boundaries to fully train your mate. Dropping to all fours and gripping the paddle in his teeth, William crawled out to his waiting, loving wife -- anxious to learn what additional indignities he would be required to endure before reaching the happy ending he so desperately craved. Not only do you have to factor in the type of dominant you are and the type of submissive she is, but you also need to think about your experience levels.Even if you both agree to try it, your sub could still change their mind. As such, be mindful of how your sub responds to any impact play and, if you think they might not be enjoying it, stop straight away. 9. Be Confident Like other categories, this is a critical one to complete domination and will help train him to be more open to other activities like water sports.

Whether they are spoken or unspoken, listed or simply known, a woman always has rules for her man. In a FLR, those rules are not only unquestioned, they are more important and unbreakable than ever. You don't need to be told what those rules are, they are yours to make, and only you know what rules are right for you. Keep them simple at first, you can always add more over time. For women with their men in chastity, so much more is possible in terms of rules and controlling their men. Presented here are some common types of rules, some more basic and some more advanced, that you might wish to include in your rule book. As always, remember that the more you dominate, the more his submission, and the greater the rewards. Once you are in control of the relationship, you can use rules to correct any behavior of his that you do not like. You can also help him become a better man by rules that will lead to self-improvement.

When you have advanced a bit in his chastity training, you can begin to require him to kneel before you, either in specific situations or even at all times. Some women do not allow their men to use furniture without permission. Most dominant women prefer to have at least a rule about kneeling when greeting. Kneeling and positions are a more advanced but extremely useful training method. By way of history, the first inclination of something different was when it came to sex. She wanted to be on top. She said that she found it easier to get aroused. There was a fair bit of experimenting early in the marriage where I would cum before her and go soft and she would be left unsatisfied. She said she wanted us to cum together but I would cum early. We went through a period where she was frustrated and then through discussion we agreed that I would hold off and giver her time to orgasm. But then having held off I couldn’t immediately cum and then I would get frustrated. We also talked through other aspects of sex were she indicated that often she felt obligated to just give me sex so I would not get grumpy or obligated to perform and fake orgasm so then proceed to my orgasm. I really had this desire to look after her and not put pressure on her and the end result of these discussions was that she would initiate sex. I was not to ask or talk about it or beg or plead. I would try to get her in the mood by making sure the house was clean and the chores all done. Give her flowers and so on. Over time, sex is only when she wants it and I never orgasm inside her. I get to masturbate about once a month but sometimes she will make me abstain for several months.

William unclenched his butt cheeks and the paddle fell, bouncing off the couch and onto the floor. He hoped Jessica would get the message of what he thought about the doggy walking idea. Being handcuffed to the kitchen pole naked for up to 30 minutes while she gets to relax watching favorite shows and sipping wine Impact play is another tool of domination that can help you to create a better experience for your submissive. A lot of subs enjoy the physical sensation of being spanked, flogged, lightly choked, slapped, or anything similar.William repeated his mantra over and over, still on his knees and still facing the wall, until he had completed his stroking assignment. I will learn how to massage His feet and provide foot rubs when requested, practising the art with focused attention and mindfulness. Being dominant is as much about self-control as it is about control of the scene. You need to make sure that you don’t get carried away and that you’re someone your partner can trust at all times. Stepping outside of the boundaries you’ve agreed on can instantly destroy that trust. Essential BDSM Toys, Tools, and Props for Doms

A positive learning experience provides rewards for goals met, praise for active participation and goal achievement. If you want your man to do the laundry to your standard, joyfully invite him to see how you do it. Explain what you are thinking as you go and have him repeat what you did giving him only positive reinforcement for what he is doing right and showing him what he needs to relearn. The goal is to learn how to do the laundry. Once he does give him affection and praise. Training your man by achievable learning goals and rewards Every BDSM relationship has both a Dominant and a submissive, and this is referred to as a D/s partnership. Dominants can be either male or female, but Dom is an exclusively male term. Female dominants are known as Dommes.

If you’re serious about becoming a Dom, you might want to invest in some tools to help you better transform into your role, deliver rewards, and dish out punishments. This is one of the most intimate forms of dominance. Penetrating your mans arse encompasses many of the core values of this guide; dominance, humiliations, affection, pain, submission and more. Slave rules: Some dominants enjoy setting more master or Kajira types of rules, where their submissive acts as a slave and performs acts of service. The purpose of these rules is to ensure you as the Master are having your life made easier, or being worshipped by your slave. These rules would be given and enforced during a period of slave training. (Read more about how to be a good submissive slave).