About this deal
Things were not improving with a simple hairbrush or by hand, so we got a heavy leather belt and a wooden paddle. A weak wimpy spanking probably won’t be effective and at worst will serve to undermine your authority. He’ll feel the after effects of that belt every time he leans against a counter or sits down for about a week after I spank him with it. My husband and I generally host company several times a year as we both have family out of state who come to visit.
If I can leave it there and quickly change the subject I do, if not I joke that he’s not getting out of his chores that easily.
Clint and Chelsea stress in their packet that CDD should only practiced by consenting adults and that the HoH should never punish while angry. Every time she tells one of her girlfriends about how wonderful and educational our honeymoon was, I blush and may have noticed as I stay silent.
The sex is not electrifying, but it's good and the feelings between us are comfortable, intimate and warm.i also took note of the visual clues of the belt and especially the sandals to remind him to behave and get his chores done. I love my husband, but his lack of respect for my opinions and what he is "instilling" into my daughter has left me with thoughts of divorce.