The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire (20th Anniversary Edition)

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Simply laugh and grow in determination as you move forward on your vision which in this case should be to have an amazing relationship with your woman. Few men are willing to give their deepest genius, their true endowment, the poetry of their very being, with every thrust of sex and life. The more familiar you become with your woman and your world, the more your desire and interest in them wane; the excitement of discovery fades, and they become lifeless and unattractive. We also put ourselves in a box, because it gives us a way to feel good about ourselves, to feel like a “real man” or an “evolved man” because now there’s a set of lofty standards we can compare ourselves to.

Many men are willing to poke their woman and bloom her in a mediocre way, sharing a few orgasms and a few emotional moments of bonding before going over tomorrow’s schedule.Don’t let these purple haired losers at Gawker, Buzzfeed, her half-witted slut friends, and other sources of feminist propaganda she’s heard in school or college, dictate what she knows about relationships. This has led to the dawning of the arena of ‘men’s work’, which is a pattern of unique practices and teachings focussed on freeing a man from being either a ‘castrated male’ or ‘dick head’, to use the words of men’s work practitioner Rafia Morgan who I interviewed recently. Most women lack the foresight to be able to see the big picture, the grand-vision, like a man, so consider everything she says as a signal of where she is mentally at the moment. Since women prioritize their relationship much more than men, they tend to think about and ponder it a lot more.

This is good in some ways as you’ll have a very powerful edge compared to other men who don’t know this stuff. He is the king of hyperbole — so when we compare ourselves to what he suggests it’s a recipe for disaster. Many times, in fact, you have probably fantasized about finding another woman even before you lose the one you have. This flow of love could be in direct relationship with the divine, although it is usually in relationship with a man. When you don’t want to see the way your work impacts others you can’t self-correct, so the negative impact gets worse.Ultimately, my hope isn’t that we discard Deida’s work, it’s that we take it with a grain of salt — and when I say “grain” I mean a big old Himalayan salt lamp’s worth.