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We almost didn't include it on our list but we wanted to be fair to everyone. There ARE guys who can do great on Tinder but they tend to not be the ones who need Tinder when they're looking to find a hookup that night. Hotel bars are great for finding short-term flings In 2021 the conversation surrounding sexual assault and harassment reached a long-awaited crescendo. The news was flooded with reports of drink-spiking in nightclubs and national campaigns like Girls’ Night In organising boycotts of venues in response. According to exclusive data that Time Out obtained from the Metropolitan Police, reports of sexual assault in London bars, pubs, nightclubs and music venues were at a six-year high in 2021. There were 207 reports of sexual assault in venues and a further 29 reports of rape. Overall, reports of rape and sexual assault in London venues increased by almosta fifth since 2016. It’s agrim rise given that venues were either shut or under strict social-distancing restrictions for at least six months of 2021, and the data only includes reports up to October 31. Why are these figures so alarmingly high in such a short period? ‘In 2021, there were 207 reports of sexual assault in London venues and a further 29 reports of rape. Reports increased by almosta fifth since 2016’ I sit down and take in the view: there are several couples having sex in front of me, while to my left there’s a woman orgasming as her lover plays with her.

Things have been even more difficult lately with so many people still social distancing or just out of practice when it comes to socializing in public. You really need to be smart and creative in how you approach finding hookups right now. KTV” is what the Chinese people call karaoke. If you have never been to Asia or watched Lost in Translation, you might think of a “KTV” as a lame bar where people start to sing “Yellow Submarine” or “Satisfaction” after they drink seven vodka and Redbulls. Silvana Kill, director of operations for the Night Time Industries Association (NTIA), says that ‘without a doubt’ people are becoming more confident in stepping forward to report sexual assault. ‘T hat’s good news,’ she says. ‘The more people come forward, the bigger the deterrent to the perpetrators.’ According to data collected by the Crime Survey for England and Walesin 2017, women are five times more likely to have been sexually assaulted than men.That's why the Savenightlife CIC (a pillar of the NTIA, aiming to secure recognition for nightlife and live music) and the group behind ‘Lady of the House’ (the first book about influential women in the dance music scene) launched a report surveying 1,300 women to gather more evidence. It showed that 91.8 percent of women don’t feel the police do enough to make women feel safer at night, and a further 84.7 percent of respondents agreed that certain inappropriate behaviours towards women were now perceived as ‘normal’ within the nighttime economy.As the night progresses, at some point the lights go out and the tops suddenly come off. This is where it pays to be an honored guest. Games begin. A typical game is that you will be blindfolded and several girls stand in front of you as you drive by Braille and try to guess which one is your partner. Lots of fun and the games get quite intimate for both the guests and the girls – neither of which seem to be shy about their bodies at all. The most recent London Rape Review discovered that almost two-thirds of London rape victims drop their complaint within a month of going to the police. In response, the Met’s lead on public protection Melanie Dales, said: ‘We are absolutely determined to increase the number of perpetrators brought to justice by improving our processes, investigations and victim care, all the time working with partners across the criminal justice system.’ A new agreement between the police and the Crown Prosecution Service to work closer in the early days of an investigation has been introduced, in the hope that fewer victims will withdraw from the process.

While prostitution in the Czech Republic is legal, almost everything that surrounds the industry is not: keeping a brothel, is not, for example, legal. Quite what constitutes a brothel is a moot point however, for the laws are quite deliberately ambiguous. As such, individual cities tend to take their own approach, and Prague’s has for many years been one of complete tolerance. You will therefore be able to visit the city’s many ‘gentlemen’s’ or ‘relax’ clubs with impunity, at least from local law enforcement. That is not to say that there are not hazards, for there are many, and there are a couple of golden rules to follow to ensure you keep your nose (if nothing else) clean. Most of you have probably tried Tinder in the past and most of you probably didn't have a great experience. From what we've seen, it tends to be the most handsome guys getting all the attention from 85%+ of the women using it. That leaves something like the bottom 15% of women for the remaining 80% of guys. NOT a great experience. Tinder also skews more toward people in their late teens and 20's. To do this, you need to be very clear with each other what your relationship is and what your expectations are. The last thing you want is someone to think it's more serious than it is. You also want to take great pains to keep things just between the two of you. The fewer people that know about what you're doing the easier both of your lives will be. Time Out asked Amy Lamé, the capital’sNight Czar, what the Mayor of London is doing to make our nightlife safer. ‘ [ The Mayor and I] are working so closely with the police and a wide range of partners to improve safety, with more than 1,800 frontline venue staff receiving Welfare and Vulnerability Engagement training,’Lamé said. ‘This is alongside the Ask for Angela scheme. More than 650 organisations have also signed up to the Mayor’s Women’s Night Safety Charter to deliver better training of staff, encouraging the reporting of harassment and ensuring public spaces are safe.’

Yes, there’s definite f**king, but no one is in a rush, they’re taking their time and they’re enjoying having an audience. It doesn't matter if your at a friend's house or a business party take advantage of the opportunity and meet as many people as you can. The odds are you are going to find someone who is also in the mood for a hookup, lives near you, and maybe even relaxed enough to act on it. When you're at a party you always have an easy excuse to introduce yourself and start a conversation by asking them how they know whoever is hosting the party.

We know that where you spend your time is absolutely crucial to finding the success you're looking for. We think it's so important that we have put together over 100 guides that contain specific recommendations for places you can go to improve your chances of finding a successful hookup or if you're just looking to find girls for one night stands. Oddly, the former is far more respectful, even if you should find yourself in bed with multiple people in one night. You’re highly encouraged to find out for yourself, although I’d recommend bringing a plus one if it’s your first time.I had this conversation during my first year in China, 2010, when it still surprised me if a girl I met in the daytime turned out to be a part or full-time prostitute. What to expect The big one. The world’s largest fetish and fantasy club, started in 1990, a visit to Torture Garden (affectionately referred to as TG) is considered a rite of passage for those wishing to explore and expand their sexual horizons. Finding hookups near where you live is often as easy as finding the closest dance club, the hardest part is finding places you can go to hookup without getting caught if you can't bring a girl home! If you're not a great dancer don't be afraid to take a lesson or two and stop taking yourself so seriously. You can have a lot of fun with the right attitude right from the beginning. Tinder is an easy place to find a hookup tonight if you're super hot already

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Gaia was sexually assaulted at a popular late-night bar in Camden in 2017. ‘I felt really violated, but the thought of reporting it didn’t even cross my mind,’ she says. ‘I had no idea you could even go to the police for that kind of thing. I always have a fear that it’s going to happen again.’