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If you’re not yet comfortable with masturbation, easing your way in with nonsexual touch can also be a nonthreatening way to get started, Laureano adds. You can try small things at first, like massaging your hand or wearing clothing with textures you enjoy. “Often, masturbation requires a level of comfort and safety,” Laureano says. “Starting from a place that’s less intimidating welcomes more expansion to find that comfort in touching ourselves.” 5. Put your hips into it. There are several reasons why this might be the case for your partner, and a good, clean lube (like our Sex Oil with CBD) can help make those reasons a nonissue. This area is connected to the hood of the clitoris,” says sexologist Jess O’Reilly. That’s why touching the pubic mound can feel so sensual. Some people prefer to have you focus only on their clit or G-spot. For many others, however, a dual approach is key to earth-shattering orgasms – even when they can’t climax from internal fingering alone.

Sure, a lot of people have their solo-sex moves down pat and might not see a need to fix something that ain’t broke. For others, shame around masturbation—a common sex concern—may factor into hesitation about getting yourself off. Whatever your approach to your masturbation routine may be, there’s a case to be made for a change of pace.No two women are the same, explains Laurie Mintz, Ph.D., psychologist and sexuality expert. “Because each woman’s nerves are positioned differently, they each like to be touched differently.” Oh, how vagina-havers detest being fingered with dirty hands and nails that snag. It’s not only painful, it’s a great way to give them a UTI. Hand care – including moisturizing cuticles – is not a step to skip. (Couples manicure?) Start on the outside. A lot of people get squirrely about touching the testicles because they’re afraid of hurting the… Read more Do some warmups This wakes up all the tissues and allows your partner to get used to being touched,” says Stella Harris, sex coach and intimacy educator.

Kerner suggests inserting your thumb just inside her vaginal entrance. Although it’s shorter than your index finger, it’s wider. Hence, it can stimulate plenty of nerve endings in the sensitive outer third of your lady’s vagina. I wrote this post for Intimately . It’s a publication for people who want to improve their relationships and sex lives. For me, getting fingered often feels even better than receiving oral sex. That’s because the stimulation is so direct and intense. In case the title isn’t clear, mutual masturbation is when you and your partner masturbate in front Read more Be prepared

To feel each sensory experience more intensely, Dr. Brito suggests applying some of the principles of mindfulness to your masturbation sessions. This can mean noticing and becoming curious about your bodily sensations and erotic thoughts, as well as being nonjudgmental about your experience. “Try to let yourself release guilt and shame,” she says. “If negative thoughts arise, imagine yourself placing them on a cloud or in a stream that carries them away, which can help you detach from them.” (And if sexual fears or insecurities are regularly getting in the way of your pleasure, you might need to practice sexual self-acceptance or consider working through these issues with a therapist if that’s accessible for you.) I think many women would agree that getting fingered feels phenomenal,” says sex therapist Vanessa Marin. “Fingers can give much more focused, deliberate, and intense stimulation than any other body part.” Aim to finger your partner for about 20 minutes, especially if you have been together before or they have never had an orgasm with you. This gives you both time to relax into the experience.