Ah, tease and denial, those two beautifully interlaced threads in the tapestry of a Female-Led Relationship (FLR). They wind and twist, carving paths of anticipation, pleasure, obedience, and control. But why, pray tell, are they such critical elements of a chastity-based FLR? Let’s pull on these threads and unravel the mystery, shall we? Allow him to masturbate to orgasm (ruined or normal) and immediately after he is finished, play with him a bit to ensure that he is nice and limp. If your fella is still ready to go, give him another orgasm to make sure that he is nice and soft. Once you are sure that he isn’t popping up anytime soon, give him your best lap-dance and offer yourself to him. Grind yourself on him and act sad and disappointed that he “isn’t interested”. Maybe next time. Things of a Certain Size Maintain the three-week chastity period, but be creative with the tease. It could involve elements of surprise, new scenarios, or even tasks that the man has to perform to ‘earn’ his tease session. Even if you know when you’re going to let him out of chastity, don’t tell your husband. Never tell him, in fact. It’s always better if he has no idea. You can’t leave him in there forever, but if he’s constantly wondering when you’re going to release him he’ll be better behaved, more attentive, and constantly aroused. As ever, the language used changes from person to person, but as you can probably guess, this is about getting someone closer and closer, before denying and cutting off their orgasm.

Week 3-4: Gradually increase the chastity period to two weeks while maintaining the daily tease. This is where denial comes into play, enhancing the sensation of longing. In the world of orgasm control, where, when and whether you want your sub to orgasm or not is completely up to you. It’s great fun to try over long distance, or just to see how far you can push your sub. Games are a fun and tantalizing way to engage in tease and denial. They could be as simple as a dice roll determining the length of his chastity or as elaborate as a treasure hunt leading to a ‘maybe’ key to his chastity device. Games introduce an element of chance, keeping the man eager and on edge. Lastly, always pair obedience with reward. The reward doesn’t necessarily have to be a release from chastity. It could be a more extended tease session, a sweet word of praise, or a token of your affection. By associating obedience with positive experiences, you’ll encourage your man to strive harder to please you. And it’s actually a great leg workout for you because of all the muscles required to work your legs in that position!It'll be one of the most frustrating orgasms of his life! He'll never forget a chastity tease like this... 8. The cruel chastity tease

By month two, the man should be comfortably accustomed to the chastity device and the routine. Now, it’s time to turn up the heat.Tease him with your lips and tongue until he is straining against the spikes and begging you to stop! Making him do something completely unrelated while he's so high off the edging session is such a cruel thing to do! Week 1-2: The man will remain in chastity for a week, with no release. However, the dominant partner can tease him daily at her discretion, fueling his anticipation. And if you really want to tease him, put your feet in his face and smother him while he jerks ( especially if he has a foot fetish).

Also, remember that consent is key and there are several health issues to be aware of – if it needs to come off, it needs to come off. Edging/tease and denial Have your slave inhale all those delicious scents while feeling very uncomfortable in that spiky cage! Spiked Chastity Cage Ideas – Final Thoughts If you want to be nice, do this on a hot summer day so at least he can use the ice to cool off. I think it would be too cruel to do this during the winter.On the flip side, denial intensifies his desire, keeping him perpetually on his toes (quite literally, if she so wishes). The restraint and discipline required during periods of denial help shape him into a more focused, obedient partner.

I’m also opposed to the practice of trying to rely on wet dreams for release - there are several studies showing that frequent ejaculation clears the prostate & associated glands of fluids that can become ‘stale’ & there’s strong evidence this may help prevent development of prostate cancer. Studies showed that men who had more frequent ejaculations had a lower rate of prostate cancer later on.Plastic ones tend to chafe, and the heavy metallic ones can be a bit too weighty. Be prepared for some trial and error, as well as a bit of moisturiser to help the skin. But when you’ve found one you can wear indefinitely, it’ll be worth it. This schedule, designed for couples well versed in the nuances of a Female-Led Relationship (FLR), seeks to maximize obedience using the thrilling tools of chastity, tease, and denial.