Do not confuse a great guy with the right guy. A man might be an irresistible catch and yet he may still not be ready or willing to give you the commitment you want. Appraise the men you date based on both their inner qualities and the compatibility of your commitment goals. A man who wants you and loves you may not get easily deterred, but a man who is just using you would soon get tired and move on to another unsuspecting prey. So, stand your ground and don’t get tired of chasing him. Instead, make him chase you. A woman’s confidence is communicated to a man by what she stands for and what she doesn’t. Being able to confidently socialize with men, having confident body language, and illustrating confidence in your femininity will only go so far if you still allow men to have their way with your emotions, time, affections, body, and anything else for that matter. Be content in your single-hood. This is ridiculously attractive to men, it communicates confidence and high value. Get started right away and discover how to get the guy and keep him interested in you without playing games.

High-quality men DO NOT pursue women who fake disinterest and play games: they respect women with no tolerance for manipulation and time wasting.Do not date a married man. You don’t want to be a sidepiece. No matter what the circumstances are – stay away from married men. So, maybe your guy doesn’t think that he needs to ‘bring things down to a woman’s level’ but still, I am sure that there’s something equally disturbing about him.

Relationships should be mutually respectful and beneficial and that is achieved when both partners are equally invested in the relationship and care deeply for each other. If you are looking to date high-quality man and also position yourself better in any romantic interaction then this is the book for you. It teaches you how to tap into your feminine power and exude that energy that makes men fall head over heels. Who should not read: Never Chase Men Again? Do not speak ill of your exes, especially if you’re just getting to know a guy. No man wants to be in a relationship with someone with baggage. Even more importantly, no man wants to start a relationship with a woman who might have been attracted solely to defective men. Why would they? You get rid of someone that didn’t care about you from the start. This can happen when you stop chasing a man in some situations.Prioritise phone calls over texting. You can tell how interested a man is by his method of communication. Make it clear that if a man wants to see you, he'll have to do it the old-fashioned way. Tease him and flirtatiously hint that you like to hear his voice.

that’s exactly what I criticize for some books in the same genre such as The Power of the Pussy: they sound too bitter. Be Graceful In Communication Imagine that your relationship was Lady Justice’s scale, with everything you put into it on one side and everything you received on the other side. But, of course, with you doing all the chasing, that would be one lopsided scale. No one would likely want to take such injustice.

As I said earlier, chasing will take up a lot of your precious time and will make you obsess over that guy so you might get caught up in the game and forget all about your friends. Be graceful when communicating with men. According to Bryson, “the masculine heart is helpless in the presence of a woman whose language is tender and respectful.” Refine your emotional intelligence. When you focused on him, he was the only one you saw and nobody else. Now, he’s been moved to the sidelines, and you may notice that other men are interested in you. One of them might just be a better fit for you. Bruce Bryan doesn’t state it this clearly but says that the kind of men you want to end up with will not find overly assertive women to be very attractive.

The only relationship that will make you happy is one with someone who really wants a relationship with you otherwise it will seem like you are forcing him into it, and that will make you both miserable. Humility speaks louder than entitlement and unpretentious goes further than self-important. Guard Your Reputation Do not confuse a great guy with the right guy. He may be a great guy but still not be ready to give you the commitment you want - therefore he's not the right guy at this time. If you don’t believe in the conventional dating principles or you are looking for cheap relationships. This is not a book for you Notes from Never Chase Men Again Do not tolerate men who want to conceal you from the rest of the world. Look at how eager he is to spend time with you, and to show you off to the world if there's no prospect of intimacy with you.Bryan says a man could be great, but he might not be good for you because he won’t or can’t give you commitment. Smart men will know how to treat you based on what you show and how they like you, you will only turn them off by asking for it. Never risk your self-respect by trying to persuade a man to be interested in you. Do not chase a man. Its making you appear less dignified. Take away your attention and feminine affection, and turn it towards more insistent suitors.