NOT "Just Friends": Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity

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To fully heal and build a stronger relationship, the couple must discuss and understand what happened. Additionally, every time I'd spend time talking to my friend, I'd be wishing that it was my husband and I spending time together talking.

I’m just weighing up whether I need a break from relationship books, but if it’s particularly useful then I’ll give it a shot. If both parties are willing, this book is a great tool to read along with your partner, to work through the trust issues, to work through any other issues that may have contributed to the cheating behavior, and provide a healthy way to work through the affair(s) together and provide some healing.When the affair is discovered, the involved partner is torn between two competing allegiances, and the betrayed partner develops the alarming mental and physical symptoms of obsession and flashbacks. Monogamy might be a goal or an ideal to strive for, but within long term relationships it is usually not the reality. Throughout this book, I use the image of "walls and windows" to symbolize the levels of emotional intimacy within the marriage and within the affair. I was relieved to find that the book provided me with closure and healing to so many unanswered questions.

If the involved partners are genuinely remorseful and committed to remaining faithful in the future, this book can help them too.Shirley Glass book brilliant at helping to understand why even in a strong relationship things can go astray. To be healthy, every relationship needs this safety code: the appropriate placement of walls and windows. Shirley Glass was a clinical psychologist who was one of the top infidelity experts in the country (regretably she died of breast cancer in the fall of 2006).

This is the essence of the new crisis of infidelity: Friendships, work relationships, and Internet liaisons have become the latest threat to marriages.The controversial book that caused a media storm on three continents with its straight-talking perceptive, blunt, and accessibly written (Booksense. I feel very comfortable referring clients to Kelly, especially those who are struggling with relationship problems, and will definitely continue to refer to her in the future.