There is controversy around all types of diaper discipline. One of the major forms of criticism is the argument that having a fetish about dressing like a baby (or dressing another adult like a baby) is surely a sign of pedophilia. However, people in the ABDL communities vehemently deny any such connection between pedophilism and their fetishes. Mara has a surprised look on her face, and Mommy closes the bathroom door so bratty little Mara can’t try to escape - she’s only realising that Mommy was serious about her wearing a diaper too. Mommy reaches into the diaper bag, and pulls out a slightly smaller pull up, left over from when Mara stopped wearing them. She pulls Mara over to her, and before Jennifer or Mara know it, Mommy has stripped down her little leggings and pretty panties. There you go, you’ll get the exact same treatment as your sister Jennifer. Now lay across my knees little girl, so Mommy can give you the medicine your sister gets.” Mommy looks over at Jennifer. “My stinky little baby, can you hand me the medicine so I can put it in Mara’s bottom?” Jennifer waddles with her huge stinky diaper and grabs the medicine. She opens it carefully for her beautiful Mommy and hands it to her. Mara is already on Mommy’s lap, being so surprised that she did it without even thinking. Some couples structure their entire lives around such role play. The adult baby might have his or her own baby room, complete with a crib and baby toys. The adult baby mom or dad may spend their time taking care of the baby in regards to feeding and changing the diaper! Potty training and diaper punishment may be one of the many games they include in their role play.

Mommy has had enough. She looks at her stinky little Jennifer, who she’s so proud of and loves so much, and then turns to Mara. “Ok little girl, I warned you. Now, you get to wear a pull up too!” Another major form of controversy is the fine line between punishment and child abuse. Many people believe that forcing a toddler or older kid to wear a diaper is abuse and can cause trauma later in life. Parents who use this form of punishment believe it to be effective and that it does not cause any sort of age regression in a toddler. Final Thoughts on Diaper Punishment While relatively unknown, I expect diaper punishment and the ABDL lifestyle to become more popular and better understood in the near future. With fetishes becoming more accepted and less taboo, more people are talking about them, which in turn opens a whole new door of marketing to those specific audiences. Already, there are many products for people that have an adult baby fetish or obsession, such as pacifiers, all of which help you to get the full experience of dressing, acting, looking, and feeling like a baby. Oh, what an excellent little pull-up baby you make! Both my girls are super adorable! I have one little squishy bottom, and one squishy-to-be!” Mara looks at herself shyly in the mirror, then glances at Jennifer. Looking over at Jennifer reminds her of what will be happening to her soon, and she glances up at Mommy worriedly.

Disciplinary Measures-Prologue by MARVELDCFANATIC, literature

Binkie Princess (real name Jess) and her boyfriend practice this ABDL lifestyle and use it as a form of connection and bonding. Binkie Princess says one of her biggest criticisms from people is that she doesn’t live a normal life and therefore doesn’t contribute to society. However, she responds to this criticism, stating, Mara has huuuge eyes, staring at Jennifer, seeing her sagging diaper. She can smell the stinky diaper from across the room! Mara blurts out, “Mommy, Jennifer just pooped herself! Jennifer, you’re in a pull up and you pooped it! Even I don’t wear pull ups anymore!” Punishment and humiliation are two very different things, though they often go hand in hand. There are many instances in which humiliation is the intended punishment. One form of this is diaper punishment. She wants people to know that just because she dresses and acts like a baby on occasion, the majority of her life is spent as a so-called “normal” adult. I think that the ABDL fetish will continue to grow, with more companies seeing the potential of the audience and creating products to appeal to their desires. Cribs, clothes, bottles, and toys all made for babies in adult sizes will be great products for people who practice this form of role playing and diaper punishment.

Conversely, I also think that any cases of diaper discipline toward children will be taken much more seriously. Already making media headlines, a precedent has been set that this form of punishment or discipline is potentially highly abusive and humiliating toward children. Hopefully more research will soon shed better light on the short-term effectiveness and long-term consequences of such punishment practices. Aside from a means of sexual gratification within ABDL circles, diaper punishment is also a form of discipline toward toddlers. albeit a highly controversial one. Parents who use this type of punishment typically believe that humiliating their children will force them to behave in a better manner out of fear of experiencing the same embarrassment again. While this form of punishment is seemingly rare, there are some cases of it happening to kids even as old as twelve. Mommy goes over and hugs her stinky, filthy little baby Jennifer. “Oh what a good girl you are, I’m so proud of you. What a stinky little baby I have! And Mara, Jennifer is wearing a pull-up because Mommy told her to. It’s ok for her to do it, and I don’t want you making fun of her. Mara, if you keep making fun of Jennifer, I”m going to make you into a little diaper girl too!”

Diaper the Both of Them (2) by diapereddaddydon, literature

Jennifer walks over to sexy Mommy and her pull up is slowly undone like a diaper, Mommy using it to wipe up some of the poopies before tossing it away. Jennifer seems a little embarrassed, but Mommy just smiles at her, reassuring her. Mommy thinks that Jennifer looks decadent, and loves when her little girl is just super poopy and stinky. She thinks Jennifer loves being humiliated, and mommy doesn’t mind a filthy little stinky baby on her hands. Mommy slowly uses a wipe, cleaning up her little girl, before spreading her open again. Mara can see her little hole this time, and watches as Mommy pushes another suppository up Jennifer’s bottom. While Mommy pushes the suppository up, a loud gurgle comes from Mara’s tummy. Mara has a funny look on her face, and Mommy smiles at her before teasingly asking “How’s that tummy feeling Mara?” Mommy laughs. “Yes sweetie, Mommy’s going to change Jennifer into a clean pull up, while we wait for your medicine to work. Come on Jennifer, come over to Mommy.” ABDLs are a group of people who have a fascination or obsession with wearing diapers, either as a result of a fetish or of a deeper psychological issue. It also could apply to a person who enjoys treating their partner like a baby. This person would be known as an adult baby “mom” or “dad”. This group of people often practices diaper punishment, which is a more nuanced fetish in which people enjoy the regressive humiliation of being treated like a baby. This fetish is relatively unknown and is only now becoming a topic that is being discussed more openly.

Oh sweetie, yes you are baby. I told you you will get the same treatment as Jennifer if you kept it up, and you did. Now, Jennifer is having a difficult time going to the bathroom, so Mommy’s retraining her. Jennifer will be wearing pull ups all day, and Mommy will be giving her suppositories twice during those times. Then, at night, Mommy’s plan is to put Jennifer in a diaper after giving her an enema. And guess what? That’s what is going to be happening to Mara now, too! You both are going to be my beautiful pull-up and diaper girls, with all the enemas and suppositories. You will be gloriously stinky little poopy pants, with such a proud Mommy!” The first involves adults and a group of people that consider themselves adult baby diaper lovers, or ABDLs. These people wear diapers and/or other types of baby clothing and items. They use diaper punishment to humiliate their partners and “punish” them (or to be humiliated and “punished” by them) in a way that creates sexual arousal and gratification. Mara is hoping Mommy didn’t hear the gurgle, and says, “My tummy is fine Mommy, why are you asking?” Mommy reminds her that she and Jennifer both heard Mara’s tummy making noises, and wonders out loud if Mara is already going to make poopies just like baby Jennifer. Mara denies it, but her tummy makes another noise. Mommy and Mara look at each other again. Humiliation in the bedroom is not uncommon, and there are many ways in which partners use it to add excitement to their sex lives. In relationships in which one partner acts like the parent and the other acts like the baby, diaper discipline is a form of sexual role play designed to humiliate one partner (the adult baby) while giving the other partner (the adult mom or dad) complete dominance. It can be used to stimulate the experience, or as a form of actual discipline or punishment between partners. Jennifer just squatted down in a pull up and has made a Giant Poopy Mess in her diaper, all while Mommy watched her and Mara walked in and saw her.

As with so many sexual activities, there is not a structured way for diaper discipline to take place; it is a matter of preference. Sometimes the adult baby will put a diaper on themselves, but often the parent partner will put the diaper on his or her lover. Sometimes the diaper will be worn and the sessions will be short, or in other instances, the diapered adult will spend an entire day in his or her diaper. People who want to take this fetish to the next level may even go to the bathroom in their diaper. Some have even been known to do this multiple times before a change! The second form of diaper punishment uses diapers to punish toddlers (or even pre-teen kids) who are having trouble with bedwetting and accidents. This form of punishment is intended to embarrass an older kid who is already out of diapers by forcing him or her to wear one in the hopes of eliminating future accidents. That’s one of the biggest misconceptions, with people telling me that I’m not an adult – I don’t have a job, I think I’m a baby, I don’t do anything, I can’t take care of myself, but a lot of the time I’m very independent. I can cook my own meals, I drive, I do laundry, I dress myself, I take care of myself.”

Other people are interested in wearing diapers or acting like babies but without any accompanying sexual desires. These people participate in diaper wearing, but instead of being “punished” or doing role playing, they simply find comfort when in infant clothes and diapers. These people can be drawn to ABDL for many different reasons, and more and more people are revealing themselves as ABDLs. There are now entire stores devoted to this phenomenon, such as Tykables, allowing adults to shop for baby products for themselves. In short, such punishment involves treating the child like a baby when they make a mistake or act out of line. In most circumstances, this involves putting a toddler (or older child) in a diaper after he or she wets the bed or has an accident. In more extreme circumstances, the child will be forced to wear the diaper all day and sit in their urine or feces. This disgusts and embarrasses the kid, ideally making them try harder to avoid having future accidents. Parents have also been known to send their kids to school or out in public wearing the diaper so that others can see, which adds an extra degree of shame. Controversy Surrounding Diaper Punishment Oh my sweet girls, you are so precious. Now Mara, Jennifer is having a problem and I am helping her with it. You need to be nice to your sister while we take care of the problem, but it means Jennifer will be wearing pull-ups and probably diapers for about two weeks, so we can get her nice and healthy. I’ll explain that more to you in a bit. In the meantime, I mean it Mara: if you make fun of your sister for her diapers and pull ups, I’m going to make you do the exact same things that Jennifer will need to do for her Mommy.”

Still Friends?(Part 2) by MARVELDCFANATIC, literature

Mara’s eyes get wide, and she protests wearing a diaper. She says she’s too big, and she can’t believe Jennifer is such a little baby in her pull up. Mommy gathers both her girls close and gives a big hug. She looks at Jennifer, and then at Mara, and starts to speak.