You’ll learn patience, gratitude, and HOLY CRAP when that cage comes off the intensity of feeling has to be experienced to be believed! Consider the temperature when measuring. If it’s cold your penis will be smaller. If it’s warm your penis will be larger. The key is getting the right fit. You’ll need to have accurate measurements to find the right size chastity cage for you, and even then, everybody and every cage is different, so it’s normal to go through some trial and error. The best way to take accurate measurements is to use a flexible tape measure. These are the kind you usually see tailors use to measure for clothing.

Maybe all you need to be the next Mozart, Voltaire, or Tesla is to deny yourself release. You can take off the cage when you’re rich and famous. Perhaps most importantly, you’ll be compromising on comfort. When you’re going to be wearing this device for hours, days or even weeks at a time, why not take the extra care to make sure it’s comfortable?Measure several times, at different times of day. Your penis naturally changes size throughout the day. If you are between sizes, choose the larger size. This leaves room for your penis to grow slightly during the day. The easiest solution is to use a little lube on the affected area if you feel rubbing and friction. This should make wearing your chastity cage a much more comfortable experience. The beginnings of an erection will feel more like a nice “erotic pain” rather than being unbearably painful. When Shakespeare wrote, “discretion is the better part of valor”, he probably didn’t mean chastity cages. (Then again, who knows, maybe it was his thing.)

When you try a new cage, pay attention to your body. Any discomfort or pain indicates a problem with the fit. And if you answered yes, then… Well, damn. That’s hardcore, dude. You probably know more about this fetish than I do, so don’t listen to me.

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Hold your flaccid penis in your hand at a 90 degree angle from your body (pointing straight away from you). Place the end of the tape measure against your pubic muscle, and lay it flat along the length of your penis. Personally, I get distracted by horniness pretty often. I still manage to get my work done on time, but it’s more difficult for some guys. Even for those who enjoy pain, a chastity cage shouldn’t hurt. If it does, it could cause lesions, blisters, or even permanent damage. Shaving your public hair can also help with this, and reduce the chance of pain for your hair being pulled by the cage.

Wearing a chastity device means your penis is denied the full sensation you usually experience, you won’t be able to touch yourself, even when visiting the bathroom and this is going to be frustrating. Even if you don’t think of yourself as a submissive or a slave, I think any adventurous man should try this kind of domination play at least once. We’ve rounded up the latest and most excellent toys to hold your member captive for all your chastity fans. Are you feeling particularly adventurous? Explore our favorite extreme sex toys or even some of the best ball stretchers to pair up with your chastity cage.

Aim for the tip of your penis to touch the tip of the cage. This will let you urinate through the hole at the tip. Worst case scenario: you don’t get to cum for a bit, you learn something new and you can say with pride that you’re an adventurous soul.