Niveaus van miskenning: bestaan van opties, betekenis van opties, veranderbaarheid van de situatie, eigen capaciteiten (incl durf). To me, this is the best kept secret in the field of psychoanalysis. If you can understand the concepts in this book, you have a blueprint for how to read individuals, and in turn, an excellent guide on how to form solid, foundational relationships with all types. Wederzijdse overeenstemming. Verborgen agenda’s expliciet maken. Doel van de verandering expliciet maken. In positieve bewoordingen. Transactional Analysis (TA) is a model for understanding human personality, relationships and communication. It was first developed by the late Eric Berne, MD. TA sprang to worldwide fame in the 1960s and 70s through the publication of best-selling books like Games People Play and Born To Win. Since then, TA has continued to grow. Theory has been expanded, reappraised and tested by observation.

TA has been successfully applied in a wide variety of settings outside of counselling, including organisational training and consultancy, parenting, education and coaching. Without parental pressures or demands, and acting as we wanted to without influence, like simply playing or making a sand castle and losing ourselves in our own world, we are said to be in Free Child. I was very keen to know more about transactional analysis and started originally with Eric Berne’s Games People Play. However, finding it too hard to digest for some reason switched to this book instead. W Won 2 - 1 against Rotherham United on October 4th 2023. L Lost 1 - 2 against Leeds United on October 7th 2023. W Won 1 - 0 against Coventry City on October 21st 2023. L Lost 0 - 1 against Ipswich Town on October 25th 2023. L Lost 0 - 2 against Cardiff City on October 28th 2023. To understand what an ego state is, referring to the two basic models helps explain and get to grips with the theory.Verschuiving van redder naar slachtoffer. Eerst hulp aanbieden, daarna afgewezen voelen als de ander de hulp niet aanneemt. Adult: Rooted in the present; relates to direct responses in the 'here and now' that are not influenced by our past. This tends to be the most rational part of our personality.

But perhaps Freud’s greatest contribution (and the one that influenced Berne) was the fact that the human personality is multi-faceted. Regardless of the classification or name given to a particular area of personality (id, superego, etc.), each individual possesses factions that frequently collide with each other. And it is these collisions and interactions between these personality factions that manifest themselves as an individual’s thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Thus, under Freud’s theories, an individual’s behavior can be understood by analyzing and understanding his/her three factions. But in a point to be emphasized later in this paper, Dr. Berne believes that Freud’s proposed structures are “concepts… [and not] phenomenological realities” 1The book demands a lot of commitment but it was worthy of every second I spent reading it or doing its exercises. I believe every person can benefit from this book. This book can mark a turning point in life. Parent– The parent represents a massive collection of recordings in the brain of external events experienced or perceived in approximately the first five years of life. Since the majority of the external events experienced by a child are actions of the parent, the ego state was appropriately called Parent. Note that events perceived by the child from individuals that are NOT parents (but who are often in parent-like roles) are also recorded in the Parent. When Transactional Analysts refer to the Parent ego state (as opposed to a biological or stepparent), it is capitalized. The same goes for the other two states (Adult and Child). W Won 1 - 0 against Stoke City on October 3rd 2023. D Drew 1 - 1 against Rotherham United on October 7th 2023. W Won 2 - 1 against Hull City on October 21st 2023. D Drew 2 - 2 against Preston North End on October 25th 2023. W Won 3 - 1 against Birmingham City on October 28th 2023.