But, what's so hot about spanking a guy? She probably isn't physically overpowering him, says Bussel, so he is making himself vulnerable to her. Since some guys see wanting to be spanked as emasculating, she adds, this means a guy is being especially trusting. I Seduced My Neighbor' S Spouse A Suntanned Gigantic Tits Super-bitch Leading The Spouse By The Nose In Creampie Whether you're the spanker or the spankee, Bussel says to approach the "hey, can we try this" discussion forthrightly but without pressure. Since the subject can sometimes be off-putting, approach the act as something you and your partner just trying, she says, not something you want to do every night (even if you do).

feelings to objects, rituals and other stuff not normally connected to sex. Spanking seemed only an addition to what had hitherto been my rather orthodox approach to sex. Regaining composure, I walked away. To this day, I can barely remember anything that transpired after that. Ginger-haired Milf Dominates Dude By Sitting And Polishing On His Face Till She Blows A Load Multiple TimesI remember being deep in conversation with Ellen as a group of men from the downtown office took a seat at a table next to us. I was standing beside their table. Since I vaguely knew them, I provided a cordial nod before returning to my conversation. Beyond just being pleasurable, spanking can also be connected to memories, a psychological theory known as ‘imprinting’ (no, not in the way it’s described in the Twilight books). scary. Spanking, giving and receiving, was relegated to "too kinky" whenever I thought about it, which wasn't often. Toying with power dynamics can be as alluring as it is discomforting. When it comes to spanking and gender-roles, baggage about power can enter the bedroom on an express train. Although love taps are certainly not exclusively man-on-woman behavior, anecdotally, guys spanking gals is one of the more common manifestations. Some dudes relish lady-swatting, which makes them feel powerful or manly. Roche, for instance, says he loves the "power aspect." But other dudes are justifiably freaked out by such a request. Men are, after all, taught never to hit women. Krs076 Married Lady In The Prime Of Her Affair 08 Who Is Now In Season And Has A Mushy Bod And Comes All Over The

However this is not the only reason people have a desire to be spanked as there are several other psychological theories which state other ideas. I remember standing alone and experiencing the hot feeling of being on display. Two thoughts permeated in my brain: did anyone see? and does no one care? When fourth-wave feminism started trending in 2012, each personal essay from a survivor was a form of recognition. I felt seen. I felt empowered. I felt like I had someone in my corner. I froze. Then I felt the anger boil. I turned to him and asked why he did that. I saw that his eyes were clear, he was sober. We hadn't seen anything like this on the list before. Whittle developed the spanking/discipline/synthesizer theme for the rest of the piece,

When women turn the other cheek, what are they asking for?

Very helpful for overactive thinkers, like me. I also enjoy admiring my stripes and bruises the next day, if I’ve been spanked very hard (perhaps with a hairbrush or a paddle).