Mistress Ice and She-Male Mistress Tanya have a fully equipped mirrored dungeon to train slaves together or separately. Duration of spanking is more about the number of strokes and the intensity of the hits than it is about the length of time it takes. The harder you are hitting, the less strokes it will take to reach the desired level of physical and mental impact. The frequency of spanking depends on the reason for the spanking. As a general rule, it is most useful in training your man to choose more frequent spankings over more serious spankings, but with a proper balance, you will be able to enjoy frequent and serious spankings while maintaining safety and well-being. The three types of spankings - maintenance, disciplinary, and pleasure - and the reason behind them is the most important factor in choosing the severity and duration. Disciplinary spankings, also known as punishment spankings, or corporal punishment, are usually less common than maintenance spankings, but are perhaps the most essential. They establish you as the source of the pain he fears as well as the pleasure he craves, motivating his entire mindset. It is vital that he understands that serious matters have serious consequences, and that it is as important not to displease you as it is to please you. Always make sure he knows why he is being punished, so he can learn from his mistake, correct his behavior, grow as person, and strengthen your relationship. For best results, make certain the spanking is severe enough that he learns the lesson. The frequency of disciplinary spankings varies depending on how minor an infraction you wish to punish, but for most who reserve such spankings for more major incidents, these spankings should be infrequent, and more so the longer he is yours. The intensity and duration of these spankings also varies depending on the severity and nature of his infraction, but generally speaking range from mid to extreme.

Spankings of every level of severity have psychological benefit for training your man, regardless of his ability to maintain his emotional composure. It is also true that you will never make more valuable progress in training through spanking than every time you push him beyond his threshold for tears. Not every spanking needs to be about whether he cries or not, and certainly your interest in reaching tears may vary greatly from one type of spanking to another. Some women believe spanking to tears is too much, while others believe that reaching tears is a sign the spanking has worked and should end. Still others believe that spanking is just warm up until tears are reached, and only then does the actual teaching spanking begin. No matter how serious you are about spanking, remember to break your man in over time, and not to go from zero to sixty right away. However this is not the only reason people have a desire to be spanked as there are several other psychological theories which state other ideas. I'm sure there are many here who are more than interested. Since I no don't have to spend any more time with the F/M & M/M material, I can devote all my time to M/F & F/F.Matron has taken on a young assistant, hardly older than us, whom she is attempting to brainwash about the evils of allowing unapproved finger-work. Having caught Diane in flagrante, as it were, she tasked the new helper with applying her first ever caning. Thus poor Diane became the test specimen for the girl's debut attempt at applying the rattan, which she had chosen to do with more vigour than precision, causing Diane to jump about in a way which Matron had found inappropriate. The scraping sound was Matron placing herself on a chair from which she proceeded to spank the wretched Diane with a singularly heavy hairbrush. Classical conditioning is a type of behaviourism that falls within this area, and acts an automatic response to prior learning – i.e. the spanking can be linked to something you’ve experienced in the past. The Death Penalty (1964): Wanda Ventham's boyfriend says he doesn't know what to do with her, so the Saint advises him: 'Try giving her a good spanking. Women love to be dominated.' I have not seen either series for over a couple of decades. I wish they both could return so we can enjoy all those moments mentioned. No matter the duration, intensity, or reason, your man had better appreciate that you care enough to spank him. Never let him forget to thank you for your efforts on his behalf. He should be very grateful you care enough about the strength of your relationship to spank him, and for all the attention and help you are giving him to help him in self-improvement, discipline, and endurance.

Very helpful for overactive thinkers, like me. I also enjoy admiring my stripes and bruises the next day, if I’ve been spanked very hard (perhaps with a hairbrush or a paddle). You can use the color of your man's bottom to gauge the level of mental effect your spanking is achieving. The more memorable you make each spanking, the greater the benefit it will be for you and your man. Spreading out the spanking evenly across every area of his bottom will reduce the appearance of blood from welts or cuts from your implement. This will allow you to spank longer, and harder, while preserving the overall integrity of the skin so he will be ready for your next spanking. With the right balance, you can ensure that every time your man sits down, he will be thinking of you and your loving discipline. You can also maximize your effectiveness and total strokes by using a variety of implements in one spanking. The abortive spanking of Annette Andre in To Kill a Saint (1967) is obviously less satisfying, but it is interesting to note that it featured in the ITC trailer for the colour series of The Saint. 'Whether it's girls or guns,' said the commentator, 'the Saint can handle the situation.' And we saw him doing just that: beating up a gunman and apparently spanking Miss Andre, which is obviously how we're he 'handles the situation' when troubled by girls.

One patient of mine was very young when her father spanked her for something he believed she had done wrong. Her dad reacted very angrily, and spanked her hard on her bare bottom causing a lot of shame, rather than holding on to the shame it’s common for people to later in life turn the traumatic experience into a sexual one to help cope with what they have experienced, leading to a strong emotional connection between spanning and sex, which now manifests as a spanning desire or fetish. In fact, these two scenes were the only occasions when the Saint actually put a girl across his knee in the TV series, but there was quite a lot of peripheral spanking material in the series. For those who are interested in vintage TV stuff, here are the details: The Golden Journey (1962) with Erica Rogers is indeed a great spanking scene. (The scene also appears in the original Leslie Charteris story in the collection The Saint in Europe, published in 1954. Interestingly the screen writer, Lewis Davidson, wrote another spanking scene in another TV series very soon afterwards.) I once saw a great photo of the scene in an old TV book, with the piquant caption, 'How to spank an unruly girl in one easy lesson.' I especially like the girl's split skirt, which she ripped in an earlier scene, meaning you get a good look at her flailing legs as she is spanked. If you look carefully you can even see the edge of her panties! Incidentally, British readers may like to know that this episode is being released in DVD here tomorrow (16 June 2001), so that it can be appreciated in even more detail than before! It usually occurs around a particular traumatic episode, which is then stamped into the child’s psyche,’ Dr Spelman explains.