Kaelah wrote a most informative article on the reasons Why Are Some Women Reluctant To Spank Men? I found a link to it and decided to bring it to life again as it was at the core of why I started OBB. I wanted my wife to spank me. I did know how to bring it up. So one day when she was in the kitchen i walked in stood in front of her and wet my pants. Soaking my jeans down both legs and making a big yellow puddle on the floor. She stepped near him again and stroked his cheek. Then she gave him a deep long kiss, reminding him why he would thrill to submit to her.

The stories are true as are the spankings. These are consensual but very real domestic discipline spankings. “Consensual” for us, means that my husband has asked to be held accountable for his actions and misdeeds and has consented to receiving actual punishment spankings accordingly. There are no warm up swats, no rubbing his butt or long pauses between swats during the spanking. And the swats are coming hard and one right after another. It is a rough experience for him. I commend him on being brave and tough enough to take what I dish out. Because let me tell you…it is oftentimes very harsh. Paul and I are both newly weds in our late 20s. I went to public schools and he went to a private prep school. I was fascinated by his stories. He told me of how boys and girls received spankings for infractions. I pressed for details. He said every day if you were written up, you reported to a detention room after classes. We (men) often find it easier to take a spanking than the cold shoulder. It also makes us more accountable and respectful. If a man asks you to spank him give him a real hard spanking to let him know that you are capable of spanking and will demand respect. He will forever be in your service. This may seem against your natural instinct not to cause harm but in the end you are showing your man that you love him and accept him. A firm hard spanking that gets the point across but isn't cruel. He will listen to what you have to say during and after the spanking. It is just the way men are wired and yes it has certain sexual and erotic underpinings. So, if you are craving certain sexual services or domestic chores right after the spanking is the time to lay the law down. This lifestyle has worked very well for us. On all other accounts, we’re very “normal” people. In fact, none of our family and friends know or suspect anything about “this thing of ours”. And, we’re often told that we’re one of the happiest, most in-love couples they know. It is rather well known from history that women often got very horny feelings by watching public whippings.I tripped over this story last month and thought to post on my birthday. It’s another by Divine Miss E. This one is different from the others. It shows that a bottom can imagine how she would top. It never happened. Submission was never my cup of tea, First published 1998. I was always a 50/50 switch. It made no difference to us who went first. It was going to be fun. It evolved that it worked best for her if she was spanked first as I was not completely rev beyond red line by being paddled first and I could take my time with her and paddle her as she liked it. Please don’t ask me to remove any of my clothing as there will be NO nudity on my part. Don’t ask for permission to touch me or lift up my skirt or uncross my legs – it’s just not my thing and it won’t happen. I do not want any topping from the bottom. I am a disciplinarian, if you are looking for sex play, I am not for you. This may sound obvious but I also expect you to arrive in a fit condition for the spanking you are about to receive. Do not come bloated after a large meal or smelling of drink. You do not need a sore head, you have come to get a sore bottom! And, although I shouldn’t need to say this, I expect you to be drug and alcohol-free. You can use the color of your man's bottom to gauge the level of mental effect your spanking is achieving. The more memorable you make each spanking, the greater the benefit it will be for you and your man. Spreading out the spanking evenly across every area of his bottom will reduce the appearance of blood from welts or cuts from your implement. This will allow you to spank longer, and harder, while preserving the overall integrity of the skin so he will be ready for your next spanking. With the right balance, you can ensure that every time your man sits down, he will be thinking of you and your loving discipline. You can also maximize your effectiveness and total strokes by using a variety of implements in one spanking.

So I think up today there are enough girls and wome who get really horny if they can give a spanking to a male. To both of us there is a strength in femininity. There is a visual sexiness in womens clothes. There is the power of female. The blog section will be added to most often. This will cover some of the topics above but also provide accounts of actual spankings that my husband has received from me. Some blogs are written by me and some are written by my husband. This should provide a good perspective from both a top (spanker) and bottom (spankee). My wife also punishes me if she thinks I deserve it. It is always over her knee, hairbrush until I am very red bottomed, then corner time. She often then puts me to bed even if it is quite early.

ABOUT ANSWERBAG

The boys sexuality is being honed. He's discovering whether is attracted to boys or girls, in most cases girls. The hormones are raging inside him. It is not uncommon for boys this age to get spontaneous erections, even in those few seconds a week (I exaggerate, but barely.) when he is an already thinking about sex. I believe I am similar to many other disciplinarians in my likes and dislikes. We all like the basic courtesies in life, so please arrive at the session showered, well-groomed and with pleasant but not excessive after shave or cologne. Ensure your clothes are clean without dirty collars and please don’t wear greying undergarments. I know exactly what your husband is going through my wife also makes me wear ** bras hose and dresses she also keeps me shaved I am not only punished by her but by her friends too