A very personal spiritual journey, of discovering yourself, your sexuality, and about the paternalistic (one could say misogynistic) society we live in. But I wonder to what extent women of colour, women of varied levels of abilities, or transwomen, or gender queer women will relate to the book. It starts with the author having a disappointing, drunken wank to internet porn, and ends with her having day-long orgasms and taking on the most powerful newspaper in the country. It blows stereotypes about sex, silence and stigma wide open, unflinchingly confronts the reality of women's complex sexual lives without patronising or preaching, and best of all it will make you laugh yourself silly at the same time!

I genuinely think this is a must-read for every woman out there because it is a catalyst for self-love and women empowerment. As you read through, more and more it feels as though the intended demographic is simply previous versions of herself. Women's sexual pleasure has been suppressed, feared, denied and punished over thousands of years, and women have been murdered and mutilated because of it" (p.It is a book to give to your friends and chat about while devising a plan to overthrow the patriarchy. Existing literature on sex is often smutty or clinical (both okay), and Cosmopolitan suggesting women eat donuts off a penis like a kebab might not help everyone feel sexually empowered or liberated. Kinksters seem to be much better at things like communication, respect and equal distribution of pleasure.

A humorous, self-deprecating, and self-effacing but intelligent and inquisitive narrator takes us on a belated journey of sexual self-discovery that is both educational and liberating. Some of the data that are collected include the number of visitors, their source, and the pages they visit anonymously. Please note: I posted all the notes I highlighted in the book directly from the Kindle app to Goodreads. So, she made a fuckit list of the things she d like to try among them slow sex, ejaculation, different types of orgasm, being sexual with other women, BDSM, sex parties and making porn and set out on a journey of discovery. Todella hyviä ja arvokkaita juttuja esimerkiksi suostumuksesta (wheel of consent oli käsitteenä jotain, joka meistä jokaisen olisi hyvä ottaa haltuun, vaikka toki tämä ei Holmesin oma käsite ollutkaan), omista rajoista, ein sanomisesta ja vastaanottamisesta, itsetuntemuksesta.

The paperback edition will be released in February 2020 published by Unbound , the book chronicles her journey to find some brilliant fucking. But, for me, this event will be memorable as the time that I accidentally came across a book that I was perhaps waiting years to read, whether I realised it or not. Having come of an age and in a culture that is overflowing with male-dominated porn has been, to say the least, dizzying for many of us.

Mas mete em cima da mesa, principalmente, a urgência em saber o que queremos, em dizer que não e em consentir e aguardar consentimento. Totta kai jokaisen seksuaalisuus on omanlaisensa ja uniikki, ja Holmes nyt löysi hänen seksuaalisuutensa avaimen tällä tavoin, mutta olisin kaivannut vielä vähän jotain toista otetta, ehkä vähän niiden omien löytöjen ja tapojen haastamista. Your courage in sharing various aspects of your experience is truly commendable, and I am thankful for the opportunity to have read your words. Edes naiskehon anatomiaa ei ole haluttu ymmärtää, eihän siitä ole kovin montaa vuotta kun vasta klitoriksen todellinen koko ja muoto paljastui. It takes the idea of explicit consent much further, also demonstrating that within sexual encounters, each partner can slide between the various stages of the wheel throughout their encounter.

It starts with the author having a disappointing, drunken moment to internet porn, and ends with her having day-long orgasms and taking on the most powerful newspaper in the country.